“Look at the couple, are they perfect marriage material? ” said one of my close cousin , at marriage which i attended recently.
What’s the defination of Perfect marriage material? Are there some predefined protocol to fit in the category. Similarly to be a eligible bachelor ? Why do we use it for ? ( Many questions at a time.)
Shape ,size, structure, strength, stamina; what to fit to be eligible? Do you have to clear examination ? I personally never understood this.
May be you should
# be able to handle extreme pressure.
# ready for the harresement.
# ready to behave ,what you are not.(being obediant)
# just be loveable.
# ready to take the responsiblity to love each day better than yesterday.
# give warm , bring a smile and promise to maintain that.
# to be rich.
# to have attractive and good looking personality.
# to fit some society standard.
( choose one you like😄:D)
Marriage should not be judged, its a pure relation between two imperfect people, a promise to share good and bad for life, a life long unbreakable ceremony done to unite. Nothing is perfect in this world. How a human being can??
Your feedback and words are welcomed.